An Awkward Walk Home!
It is my last official day here in Ghana and a day where I have had one of the most interesting experiences that I will be reflecting over for many years. Ashley and Brianne decided to go to Kumasi this morning to see a football match and pick up some last minute souvenirs. I decided to stay behind and confirm that we actually have a driver to take us to the airport tomorrow, and figure out how to pay for our accommodation.
Ashley had left me some money behind to go to the liquor store in order to purchase a bottle of something called TAKAI. TAKAI is an alcohol made from natural cocoa and coffee. She wanted a bottle to give to her parents when she returned to Canada. This alcohol is actually quite nice and works well as a baileys substitute.
So I went for a fifteen minute walk towards the town of Fiapre, in order to pick this bottle up for Ashley and in order to get some fresh air. As the hostel still reeked since there was no water after the congress party because it had all been used up by the many people.
I purchased the bottle for 13 Ghana Cedi’s and started to walk back.
On the way back I was approached by this guy, and thought nothing of it because you are often approached by people here, for no apparent reason, other than you stand out in a crowd!
He said to me that he had seen me before at the tro-tro station with my three sisters going to Kintampo. I did not remember seeing him, but the story was correct. “I want to be your friend he said to me”, and I was polite and nice, and he started saying how he needs my help to get to Accra, I said that I was unable to help him today and kept walking. He told me his name and what town he was from and explained that he cannot return home and that “I am a son of Abraham” and kept asking me if I understand what he was getting at.
I was clueless for the longest time as to what he meant, and then he explained that he is different and cannot return home because his family has beaten him and his village will kill him.
I was of course shocked and didn’t know how to respond and was not sure if his story was even true, or just a way to ask me for money.
He proceeded to tell me that he wanted me to hold his hand and help him get out of his town to Accra. He said he must escape and that he wanted to be my friend. He finally explained that he had made some noise at night with another male friend and that is why his family wanted to kill him. Obviously I understood what he was getting at by now!
Brianne and I had read a newspaper article about gay rights here in Ghana in a local newspaper and the most common punishment listed was 25 yrs in jail. The article said that homosexuality is an “imported foreign idea” that must be dealt with.
So naturally I was shocked and didn’t know whether or not to believe this guy who was following me I said “I’m sorry but I can’t help you out I must leave now goodbye”. He then continued to follow me and plead for assistance. I was not sure what more to say, as I had already been quite firm and he had followed me almost all the way to my room so I went to a Ghanaian friends room instead and walked in and asked for assistance to get rid of him. I stayed in my friends’ room for what felt like forty minutes and my friend even had a hard time convincing the guy to leave me alone. He was calling me from outside the room begging for help and I am still not sure if it was a ploy for financial gain or the truth.
It was a very awkward situation, and I am not sure exactly what his aims were but I will remember the situation quite vividly for some time.








